One of the most misunderstood things I have learned in supported housing is that people do not always move towards what is good for them. And sometimes, chaos feels safer than change. Sometimes they move towards what is familiar. That might sound irrational. After all, why would somebody choose a situation that causes them harm?…
One of the hardest lessons I have learned in supported housing had nothing to do with homelessness, addiction, mental health or safeguarding. It was learning the difference between supporting somebody and parenting them. When I first entered the sector, the distinction seemed obvious. Of course support workers don’t parent residents. We are professionals. They are…
When Soccer Aid raised another £16.5 million this year, bringing its total fundraising for UNICEF to more than £137 million since its inception in 2006, my first reaction was admiration. It is an incredible achievement. In a world where we often hear negative stories about society, it serves as a reminder that people are capable…
For a long time, I worried that I had become desensitised. After many years working in supported housing, I thought perhaps something had changed in me. Maybe I had seen too much. Maybe I had heard too many heartbreaking stories. Maybe witnessing loss, addiction, trauma and crisis over and over again had slowly dulled my…
Support Workers Become Protective of Residents? There is a phrase often used in supported housing and homelessness services: “Maintain professional boundaries.” And it is good advice. Boundaries matter, they protect staff, they protect residents. They create healthy working relationships and help ensure support remains effective. But there is another reality that is discussed far less…
The humour that gets frontline staff through the day….. Supported housing can be emotionally demanding work. There are difficult conversations. Crisis situations. Trauma, mental health struggles. Substance use. Loss. Aggression. And long periods where staff carry emotional pressure that most people outside the sector never fully see. But alongside all of that, there is something…
There are moments in frontline work that would shock most people. Moments involving crisis, aggression, addiction, grief, trauma, or loss. Moments that stay with you long after a shift has ended. At least at first. Because one of the strangest parts of working in supported housing is realising that over time, some of those moments…
Today I am going to write about the stigma around homelessness. Homelessness is one of the most visible forms of struggle in society. People walk past it every day. Outside supermarkets, in town centres, at train stations, on park benches. And because it is so visible, it is also something that attracts strong opinions. For…
Loss in supported housing, is something that happens not too often. But still far too often. It’s one of the quieter realities of the sector. Not always spoken about publicly. Not always fully understood from the outside. But for those working on the frontline, it becomes part of the emotional landscape of the work. And…
Introduction: The Balance at the Heart of Supported Housing Staff safety in supported housing sits alongside one of the sector’s core principles: supporting people to remain housed, even during difficult periods. And in many cases, that approach works. From a frontline perspective, you see people stabilise, engage, and begin to move forward in environments that…
